I found this in my blog history from 2013 and I never published it. I'm not sure why I didn't then, so I'm going out on a limb and publishing it today.
Halloween has never been celebrated in my home since my marriage. It was really no big deal to just quietly bow out of festivities. We've helped out with fall festivals and alternatives, but our family conviction has deepened over nearly 18 years of marriage. The past 10 years with children were the first to draw questions as we never dressed up our babies. For the most part, people are very gracious when I give the simple answer that we don't participate. When people offer things to my children, we accept the treats and make a decision on what to do with the items, usually candy.
Enough about what I do. That isn't why I feel compelled to write. Anyone who professes faith in Jesus Christ is a target of this particular attack from the enemy of our souls. It does not matter how you spend October 31 and the surrounding days. It is our attitude toward other Christians regarding their choice that has become a foothold for Satan.
Since the beginning of the Christian church, there have been arguments about how Christians should worship or act. This is where denominations come from. In the beginning of America, groups of people were fleeing from European countries in hopes to have freedom in worship. Some sought gold and some adventure, but Quakers, separatists, pilgrims, saints came here seeking this freedom. Now we have it, and we live and move and have our being in Him.
I know how I feel and am drawn to blogs and articles and posts on Facebook to support my point of view. I also read a blog recently that is not my stance, but I saw her point ... at people like me as wrong and disobeying the Bible. I confess I felt a little offense rise up in me. It wasn't her choice that got me, but her statements about people who disagree with her. Something my dad said on Facebook reminded me of her statements and I was becoming angry at a lot of things. I won't share all of that right now.
With encouragement of a friend, I began to seek The Lord for His wisdom. Every thread about Halloween on Facebook pages of Christians is full of comments from every angle. Evangelizing, having nothing to do with it, just having fun, safe alternatives, breaking the darkness, and other views are not just shared, but are turning into fiery debates. Many sides of the argument giving scripture to support.
One Christian might say that because their church didn't have an alternative event, they are going somewhere else. Another would say that because their church allowed costumes, they're going somewhere else. Here goes the church hop which is a sign of division and all over what? Halloween. The holiday where the majority of Christians on all sides of the argument end the argument with, "What's the big deal about it?" One writer says that apparently it's a bigger deal than you think if it gets you riled up enough to take sides. Although I don't remember the topic of discussion in which that statement was made, I suggest it applies here.
We as Christians judge other Christians. You may say, "Not me!" I say, "Yes, you!" If not about Halloween, about Christmas, if not about Christmas, about worship style, if not about that about how they spend money and the list goes on and on and on... The Bible tells us to,"judge not." Amazingly, that is a Bible phrase almost every Christian can spout out in times of need. I'm finding that I use it most when I am offended. I would dare to say that we Christians are more understanding of non-Christians, than we are of other Christians who don't act they way we do.
I offer a challenge for Christians regarding Halloween today and whatever offends you about other Christians tomorrow. We know what we believe, let us take it to The Lord as a matter of prayer. Holy Spirit will give your heart peace or convict you and guide you. Search the scriptures for yourself and let God speak to you through them. Challenge your friends to do the same. Then TRUST that your friends have done the same even if they come to a different understanding than you. If you can have healthy discussions with friends, then do that. Each of you may discover something you didn't consider. Know why you made your choices.
What my family does this year is not going to look a lot different than previous years, BUT I understand that God doesn't call everyone to look the same. A public minister that I've followed for years had teachings that lined up with my beliefs about Halloween and they made a dramatic change this year. I don't agree with it completely and, yes, I became offended. This minister prays faithfully and this change is what God spoke to them. I have to trust that the change was made in obedience and I need to show this person love, not contempt.
There are plenty of battles that to fight, so please don't fight your own team, your family, the body of Christ. Let's listen to the Holy Spirit, know the real enemy and fight together!
There are plenty of battles that to fight, so please don't fight your own team, your family, the body of Christ. Let's listen to the Holy Spirit, know the real enemy and fight together!
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